Chasing some ideal that our own minds have conjured up as 'normal' is what buggers us. I think it's too easy to visualize what we don't have. It's easy to notice what is missing in our lives...and just as easy to idealize that which we believe unattainable. Then of course we tend to kick ourselves for the inability to have what everyone else most surely has. Boatloads of normality and happiness.
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