don't worry at all, i just wanted to clarify things, but i didn't feel offended at all, i didn't feel like you implied anything. it's really ok. I also wanted to tell you guys that I might be away from the forum sometimes, i have a dial-up connection and a demanding life I opened a blog here at PC to list all my "issues" there, rather than opening new threads again and again, and to have a single place to look at them, if you want to comment them you're very welcome.
By the way, terms are not a problem with me, since english is not my language! Nothing in english shocks me even if i know what it means, i have this natural filter so.. that's why fat is just.. fat. Which it is, and i am. the reason i am large is that i have fat accumulated, nothing more nothing less, you know? i don't get sad by saying it. it's ok.

PS my blog here at PC