Sally, Unless he is a psychiatrist, he has no business dx you with bipolar. We all go thru periods of irritability--men and woman--no reason to put you on hold for 4 days. Why 4 days, by the way?
He is trying to control you--if you don't treat me exaclty like I want you to--I will not see you for 4 days. He obviously has his own issues. Consider this recent event as a giant red flag. Good Luck.