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Leed · Oct 17, 2012, 09:31 AM

Hi Frog ~ Bless your heart -- I know you like helping people but the first thing you have to do is HELP YOURSELF. You can't keep bringing people into your house and helping them, if you're sinking into a hold.

Dont briing anymore people into your home. You and your husband should be number ONE. You two have got to start caring for yourselves, and saving money -- you can't keep saving everyone else, and the world. Those people will have to find a way to save themselves. I think it is wonderful that you DO want to help people, but you're taking away from what you and your husband need. You can't afford to do that.

Besides you keep getting screwed over.

And if people at work don't like you because you're different, it's not YOUR fault -- it's THEIRS. There's nothing WRONG with being different. Who wants to be just like everyone else? I don't want to be. They are just going along with the crowd and they aren't being themselves. YOU are being yourself -- you are not trying to please anyone else but yourself and I find that wonderful!! So keep being just YOU. You will find a friend -- don't worry. Those people at work just don't know you. Give them time. It's just they never knew anyone who didn't "follow the crowd." You're not doing that, and that's great! You're starting your OWN crowd and in time you'll have some members. So don't worry. Different is new and refreshing! Be yourself just like you are! God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee