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Oct 17, 2012, 10:57 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi ~ First I think you need to know WHAT you're grieving for. Is it for the relationship? It really wasn't very good, was it? She was always on your about something. She was always criticizing you for something and calling you names.  Are you grieving forr tie IDEA of a relationship? Is it that you just want to be in ANY relationship because you're lonely? I can understand that -- it's awful to be lonely. If that's it, then lets OWN it and call it by name -- loneliness. 
Or are you depressed because she's pregnant? I really don't think that's it because you felt awful before you even found out. That may have added to the depression -- but I don't think that's at the core.
I think your BASIC problem is loneliness plus with the baby coming, you're not sure you'll be in the baby's life -- well you have to make SURE you'll be in it's life -- and you can do that LEGALLY. So don't worry about that!!!
God bless monkey --- I know what loneliness/depression is my friend. Take care. Hugs, Lee
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The truth shall set you free but first it will make you miserable..........................................Garfield
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