You may want to let your sons GF move in. Maybe make his room, the basement, or the master bedroom into a studio. So that you don't have to really deal with their relationship. You'll be able to keep a watchful eye on them while you find him & her help. He'll also be paying the rent amount of a utilities included studio. Look into community health centers.


My Husband & I were engaged 2 wks. after meeting, had a planned pregnancy after 5 months, then took 3 years to get married. We've been together 11 1/2 years. Looking back we were both manic at the time we met but I would and still am a lot like him. My family has not accepted my husband or son to this day. My family and I were close before I made my choice in mates.