quit reading into my situation. codependency is not fake. i am not talking of simply needing and loving each other so quit bashing me or whatever you are doing. just because two people need counseling doesn't mean they aren't right for each other. my parents have been married 30 years and they have codependency issues they often must overcome. getting in somebody's thread with the simple intent of telling them they are wrong for seeking help is downright wrong and if you have no real intention to come help but rather argue with me to make yourself feel better back off do your own thread. you have no right to cause problems with me.

It is not wrong for two people who love each other to stay together, in fact God prefers people not seek outside sources but try to fix things unless of adultery. .So don't come and try and destroy my relationship just because yours did not work.