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Originally Posted by struggling2
thanks sarah michelle/starry night  ive followed your thread about your trip and it sounds amazing. so happy for you that you got to do that. although i know i need to talk about trauma and issues...im also deep down secretly hoping for some normal or typical day-to-day experiences with T.......just because so much of my childhood experience with my mom was not normal and i think it would be so healing to have those experiences and be able to hang onto them instead of my memories being harsh. |
That was a lot of what made my trip so helpful and healing. T and i just did every day stuff, things sisters or a mom and dauter would do together like shopping and painting our nails and watering flowers. It was so healing because i got to have a bunch of stuff that i didnt ever get before. Like her saying such positive stuff to me and all the actual attention i got. I am not used to it and it felt good. All those corrective emotional experienes! I really really really hope that you can have some of those things. I truly hope this experience is very healing for you.