My husband was pretty sneaky and deceptive all the way through our marriage. There were so many times I should have said enough is enough. He's now left. The money ran out. I've given up my 15 year career to move here where I know no one. We worked at the same place where appearances are important. He'd said his ex wife was a lunatic. Now I know why. A week after he left he told me he'd been promoted to a position where he could no longer work remotely. A few days after he left he changed his fb pic to the gentle looking handsome one he used when we had started dating. I feel used and angry. I can't go back to my career there as I worked closely with him. What a scum. Venting!!!