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Renew, Ephesians 5:33 says" Nevertheless,let each one fo you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband"

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i do love her..but she is not my wife yet. She is my girlfriend whom i would like to marry. I do want to prepare God's way, instead of my own way. If her and I do not let God guide us, we will fail. We need guidance and prayers to find which way God wants us to do this.

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I know nothing about codependency..but I do know that God listens and He wants you to enjoy your life.. both of you..and He knows His plan for you.

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Yes.. I want to find God's plan.. I strongly feel He approves as long as we obey Him and do it His way.. But we need to find that so we can heal and prepare for the future God's way.

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I say you are on the right track; you are putting Him first How could you go too far wrong? There is no hurry... take your time, keep praying.. i will pray also...

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thanks. i appreciate it. I am sure she would if she were to read this.

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Blessings..ps.. having faults does not mean failure.. those putting you down are clueless...

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I know, but we need God's strength and peace as well as the wisdom and counsel.