I'm only 24 years old and a student at a community college where the ages of students varies. I continue to get approached by guys who just graduated from high school or guys who are just not mature just yet.
Is there something about me that just attract these types of guys. I'm really easy to talk to and comfortable to meet new people. I wouldn't mind dating someone who was 2 years younger then me but they must at least have a mature outlook on life.
Instead theres a 22 year old guy who's been wanting to get to know me over 3-4 semesters thats about 2 years, and still he acts as though he's still in high school. He doesn't even care to know how to drive, loves bmx bikes, doesn't have a job.
He saids that he majoring in business so that he can go into the bmx business. When I say he's still like a high school grad, he doesn't care to groom himself, he's just one of those guys who doesn't mind skippy a shower for a day or two, puts on whatever is laying around and if he feels like it he'll bush his teeth. LoL That attitude is alright, he just doesn't care and relax. He could be everyone's buddy.
I am physically attracted to him, when I see him on a good day when he self-grom himself. Is that just bad of me to say?! But come on now, I need to meet someone who can stand on their own two feet. I enjoy talking to the guy but I just get pass all the other things.
I go out of my way to make sure I don't lead him on in any way and to make sure he knows that I only want to be friends. I don't let our conversation to get too personal.
I hear it over and over again that I look so young, as though I'm stil in high school. I dont know how many times people have asked me to show them my ID just to see a rated R movie and to ask if I have my guardian with me. After some time I just laugh at it. I suppose I just have great skin, at least when I'm 50 I'll look like im 30 LoL!!!
So what do you think what is that with some guys who are just not in that mature part in their life and would think it would be attractive to me?
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