That's sad when family make looks be such an important thing in life.......sorry, but I don't believe that looks are what makes the person attractive.....& truly believe that character, personality, & mind are really the only things that count when it comes to relating to people & what I think of them.

I'm sorry that you ended up buying into that thinking.....but it's something that can be changed....not something you have to hold onto even if your family chooses to be so shallow.