Do you make assumptions, for instance that a friend likes or loves another of their friends so much more than you because of something they have said or not said? Does that negate what you might have had between you? And do you read between the lines.... the closer the friend, the more you read between the lines of what they say? Do you personalise what might be them having a bad day, week, month ...... and feel that they no longer care about you? I do all of those and more
But are assumptions always wrong?
My gut feelings are often pretty accurate but I am in a bad place now so I just need to hide in a hole .... again.
Were you abused, neglected and ignored in your childhood (I was)
Do you trust?
(I hope I haven't asked any of these questions before, if so I send you fuzzy apologies)
Take care,
Fuzzy