Hi there,

I think it would help if you were able to talk about the fetish without being nervous about being attacked for it, ya know? Sometimes its good to explore thoughts. I think there is a reason why we say the things we do, do the things we do, get attracted to the things we do.

It always helps to if you're not alone, but I do not have this fetish, so I would just suggest talking about it more. You can pm me anytime, and I'll try to get back to you, although sometimes I can forget to check for a few days so I apologize in advance.

If this fetish is causing you problems, then it might be good to talk about it, and hopefully with someone who doesn't necessarily require you to change, just to explore the thoughts, why you have the fetish, what goes through your mind about it, ect, especially since you are saying that you can't at this point accept the fetish without it ruining your sex life.

you take it easy,
-obj