I need to follow this advice too, but I was just trying to think of any way to help...is there maybe ONE thing, just one, that you could find that would be good about the future?

Even if it is something like, you'll have your own place, or you're gonna get a big/little dog (or a cat if you are a cat person, etc) ? I don't know. That's what I'm trying to do...I want a German Shepherd, so that's what I'm focusing on. Might be a stupid idea, though, I don't know. I really like thinking about how protected I'll be if someone tries anything, lol.