I'm sorry but I don't believe she is trying to be mean, we have no idea what is going on in her life right now...it could be a number of things. One time I was freaking out because my T wouldn't respond to an email, as quickly as I would have like and it turns out a friend of his had been killed. This is when I began to realize the difference between being there for me emotionally and always being there. They are human to and have the same daily crap happen as well. She will call you when she can. I do think a distraction is in order. You can PM me too if you need to.