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Originally Posted by Miswimmy1
I do love her. But we make each other happy when we are both happy. I guess. She is not the best in crisis, I have to say. But this doesn't come up often and so its not a biggie. But it's times like these that make me feel so unwanted and such a burden
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I can relate to this.
I think the next time you see her, you should tell her you really need her to work with you on developing some coping techniques. You're in therapy not for the gift-exchanges and the Easter egg hunts, but so you can learn to keep yourself from falling apart. If she's only there for you during the happy times, she's not doing her job. So try to steer the ship and tell her you need her to
work with you.
I know you have expressed fatigue with having "serious" sessions. I don't know if you're still feeling like this or not, or even if you ever told her. But as much as serious sessions suck sometimes, they serve a purpose.