i personally think let life go the way it will. i dont think you can really make relationships happen, and that said, i dont think that you can avoid them either. i think you will know who is right, when the right time is, etc. i would feel no need to get in a relationship. college is an exciting time... enjoy it. you have a lifetime to figure out who you want to spend the rest of ur life with. for now, do what *you* want.