My Dad had surgery Thursday to remove some lump from his neck. It didn't go as planned, and he had to stay overnight. On top of that, they suspect it might have been cancerous.

I've been dealing with horrendous commuting issues all day by trying to find an apartment. I just realized that my mother might need support from me in dealing with my Dad (and recent health issues with my grandmom). I feel like I should go home now instead of dealing with my housing issues, but I don't want to see my dad like that, and so much of my therapy is daddy issues. I swore I wouldn't care if he died....that sort of thing. So now I don't want to face this and deal with those feelings, but I realize my mom might need support.