Has anyone else had obsessive thoughts, fantasies about their therapist. I realize this is pretty standard because this person has helped you and been kind and understanding and empathic but I don't seem to be able to stop myself from obsessing about what this therapist thinks about me or how he feels about me. It takes up a lot of time and energy and is ultimately very depressing because I know deep down that he doesn't think about me or feel anything about me outside of the therapeutic relationship we have shared. How have others gotten over these feelings?