[QUOTEever=johnf22881;2651688]How do we plan for the future then? I mean we don't go to war without a plan, do we? I am not being a smart a@$ or anything, just don't understand the concept of "one day at a time" I guess.[/QUOTE]

I hope madisgram's words helped. I understand your frustration Wii what I said. I am urging you not to be in a rush about putting a carefully-detailed plan together at this point.

You are feeling incredible sober ... and compared to where you were a few weeks ago, you are. Yet it is, in truth, early days yet. Your body and your mind have a lot of sobriety yet to claim and adapt to and become at one with. You have a lot of relearning how to live soberly before you are ready to become fully responsible for your life again. Get used to handling the daily grind of life without ever needing a drink, then start tackling the bigger things. If life allows you that luxury. The odds of relapse are HUGE ... give yourself every opportunity to walk firmly in your sobriety. Have you started giving anything back yet?

Roadie