Writing a letter can sometimes feel silly as sassyone said. But it sounds like you did a good job. People who haven't suffered abuse have weird reaction when they are faced with it, so don't worry about hubby, he's only trying to deal with it as best he can. You should worry about yourself and how you felt after writing the letter. Did it help? I ask because I would consider it if it helps. I hope you can one day put all of this behind you and be free again.

Safe hugs
Tanya