My T has been a T for so many years now, I think he's perfected the art of blank slate. I have no idea if he has any countertransferance at all. I like to imagine he has some. He used to say things like, "When I was thinking about you this past weekend..." or "I worry about you if you keep on this path." Or my favorite, "You just need someone to tell you you're precious."
But that's all I've gotten out of him. And even with that I just assume he says that stuff to his other patients too, so I must not be all that special to him.
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