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Originally Posted by TentativeConnection
its ok, you can talk about it here if you want, I don't mind.
And my opinion: it was a very...maternal kind of thing, not sexual- so how could it send a wrong signal? The only signal I got was that my t cared about me and how upset I was in that moment very much. And I felt comforted, instead of having to imagine I was comforted. It made me feel like I matter.
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Exactly TC! That is how it is suppose to make you feel. If we had had this care on a continuous basis in the first three to four years of our lives we would not have to get it from our therapist now. Until we can get it, and take it in, we will continue to have unsatisfactory relationship with others, and more importantly - a poor relationship with self.