ummm, no. it sounds like he has twisted the truth to fit his own coping style. #1 he was older, and #2, boys in general are stronger than girls. I don't know about at such a young age...but i highly doubt you used force to "make" you do that to him. MAYBE, but it doesn't sound like it in this situation. Especially if he is trying to use that to rationalize his brother molesting you. And yes a 14 year old doing that to a 7 year old is molestation. 14 year olds know what they are doing.