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Originally Posted by autotelica
Of course they aren't the same.
He's trying to guilt you into thinking that just because you did one thing voluntarily, that means you must have asked for the other. And just because you supposedly hurt him, that gives someone else license to hurt you. He's try to screw with your mind. Don't let him do this.
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He said the opposite. I told him that IF I was the one who introduced sex play, I only did it because his brother did it to me first.
So he said that he hears me saying that since his brother hurt me, it was okay for me to hurt him.
I told him a 7 year old doesn't have the concept of malice and purposely hurting someone else, but he says he disagrees and all the sexual contact we had I was hurting him and he was afraid of me.
I remember being afraid of HIM sometimes, and I remember our sexual contact as consensual (more or less, there were things I didn't like to do).
But I don't know.
When I was 6, I
DID molest my almost 2 year old brother once. He just doesn't remember it. My mom caught me and put an end to it, but never thought to ask me where I learned it, so it just went on for years longer with my cousin. So I am guilty of molesting someone.