My husband, in the context of therapy, revealed to me today that he can't stand the way I kiss, that he is not attracted to me, and that he is interested in dating other people. BUT he doesn't want to end the marriage and he wants to make it work.

In a relationship, I need to be intimate with my partner, and I need to be confident that my partner is committed, and attracted to me.

This revelation explains to me why we haven't had much sex in the last 4 years. It comes as a shock to me that he is interested in other people. He won't admit to anyone specifically, but he is talking about wanting relationships with people, not just sex.

I haven't figured out how I am supposed to continue our relationship with this information in the back ground. What do I mean to him? Where do I fit in? He didn't have answers to those questions.

What would you do with this info?