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Old Oct 20, 2012, 03:53 PM
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Originally Posted by TentativeConnection View Post
::shrug:: I feel like it was consensual even if it was wrong that were were doing it at all. There has to be a5 year separation to be considered molestation, and I think his "feelings" are designed to manipulate me and excuse his stealing my car. But hey- who knows.

Maybe I was an evil peer molesting 7 year old with a black heart.
It does sound like he's trying to use it against you as a form of manipulation....or he may also be expressing some of his feelings of hurt and anger about what occurred back then....you really can't know unless you have an honest conversation with both sides willing to listen. It doesn't sound like that will happen any time soon. Saying that there has to be a 5 year separation to be considered molestation is really just a way to dismiss his feelings.

Right now, it just seems to be used as a way to blame and attack you - and you're feeling defensive. I don't blame you for feeling that way.
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