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Rhap ... just asking (please don't be offended).

But why is it more ultimate that what I had with my ex boyfriend ... we broke up when I went overseas and now he is in a different city ... I see him on Tuesday and I can't wait ...

But how can it be more ultimate? That just sounds ... marriage does not make love more exclusive.

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I guess ones has to be married to understand that special inner feeling of knowing that another is committed to YOU for LIFE... for better or for worse, especially during the worse... with in a marriage for LIFE you literally become connected spiritually to the other person.



LoVe,
Rhapsody - ((( hugs )))

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Sorry but that sounds like you are trying to justify marriage.

WHAT RIGHT HAVE YOU

or anyone else

to say that my connectedness and love is not as 'special' as yours?

I'm really insulted, as I believe I have experienced some very beautiful things in relationships. That many people (perhaps you, as you're trying to justify it????) have never experienced at all.