Hi, Icetea...
This relationship is causing you a lot of insecurity....How much do you actually know about this man? You would be wise to be wary....Let HIM do some of the work! Let HIM tell you he wants you and loves you, and don't let yourself suffer with his ambivalence. Have you read the book, HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU? I know this book has many flaws, but one of the things it says is that "a man will move heaven and earth to be with a woman he desires." I truly beilieve that, and waffling around, giving you grief is not a good sign.
Patty