If people get mad it's a reaction to their internal thought system. I use to get mad before therapy when I didn't no what was going on inside of me. It felt like a manipulation tool not having any idea how to respond to events. People confuse getting mad for caring. Getting mad is an immature reaction. If I am around people who are still stuck in the level of immaturity I avoid them. I don't expect my T to get mad either. A therapist should be more evolved then that. I am more able to step out of other people's dramas now. That's really all getting mad is about