I'd get the adults and their therapist(s) together with Miguel and his therapist(s) and work up a solution from there ... !!!

Gosh, it's got to be hard going through all this when kids are involved ... !!!

I can't even imagine it as I only know how hard it is doing it single and childless ... !!!

However, the altruistic adult me says the best interest of the child should always come first ... !!!

Sending 's and wishing you all the best ... ... !!!

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Pfrog!