I bet he might change his tune if you change yours. My ex acted like I was hideous without makeup and had me do botox and hated the veins I my legs and had affairs with strippers. Now after i've left, i'm oh so sexy and the only woman for him and his muneca. Blek. He just wants what he can't have or something. Making me feel crazy and unattractive and worthless was part of the way he controlled me. Also threatening divorce was a way to manipulate me. When I actually divorced him, he was devastated. I was shocked. Mine also forced me to have sex even when I had separated ribs and really
bad utis. men like him are all about control.
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