Now that I can have multiple orgasms again

, I want to buy myself a present in the form of a toy, for my 42nd B-day next month. I think it is a good idea for a present. I somehow have managed to have had two husbands, three children, but no sex toys and reach 40 this way. The situation should be rectified!
I have seen them mentioned on this board so I think I am addressing the right audience, asking for a recommendation or two.
Just please assure me that having toys simply widens the repertoire without making us unable to come from human touch.