What does he say about going away? Will his schooling continue while he was gone? Will he be able to see a Pdoc while he is gone? What if he is gone and has an episode and needs to see a Pdoc .. I know you and your husband are both dealing with your own illness and are concerned you wont be available to parent him.

Im the type that has to sit down with a legal pad and physically do a pros and cons list.

I hope you are able to make a decision that will work for your family.

Good Luck