That is one of the reasons why it is so important to seek help and not just keep everything to yourself. I think if some of the abusers read the posts on pc they would be amazed at the trauma and hurt that they have caused. To educate people we also need to speak up and make our voices of pain hurt so that others can know. I know it's easy to say, I for one am not ready to speak up... but we should. Why are we so afraid? It's not like we did anything wrong. Why do we feel so giulty then? That's beside the point... Yes Rhapsody, EDUCATION!