I sometimes embrace the label, I didn't even know I was diagnosed with it until I got my medical records and once I started to research and learn more about it and saw so many of the symptoms in my own behavior, things started to get better for me.. I was able to take responsibility and have better control over my emotions and behavior. I still feel very unstable and maladjusted and am unsure of my identity and feel as if I have multiple ones and just feel "different" esp when I'm at school.. and I sometimes obsess over it and freak out. Other times I just think of myself as a normal person with a f*cked up family and flaws like anyone else, it helps, somewhat at least.