How do you stop thinking about someone that you're in love with? I love him so much, but I can't have him. It's breaking me apart. I'm depressed without having to think about him. I'm not even safe in my sleep because I dream about him constantly. I wake up crying. I don't know what to do. It's driving me insane. I'm so depressed I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like someone has shot a hole right through my heart and punched me in the stomach. It's like all the wind has been knocked out of me. God help me.