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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
Red flag 1: backing you into a corner- CONTROLLING. Red flag 2: manipulating you. Red flag 3: emotionally blackmailing you. Red flag 4: Blaming you for HIS reactions. Red Flag 5: Verbal abuse. Red flag 6: Alcoholism. Red flag 7: Throwing things (my ex started off like yours, he eventually beat me to a pulp) ... So while I dont usually tell others what to do, here's what I would do... RUN! this guy is in NO way at a place in his life where he can sustain a HEALTHY relationship. You deserve so much better.
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First class post and wise words from Trippin.
Thousand, you started your original post, saying that you're a nice girl, and that when you make people happy, it makes you happy. I really think that your boyfriend knows that and is taking huge advantage of that, seeing it as a weakness. He's blaming everything on you, and you telling a couple of lies.
I daresay you will not want to hear any of this, and will defend your boyfriend to the end. Only you can decide what to do with your life, and your boyfriend, but I hope you'll make sure you are safe, and mentally sound. He WILL wear you down and make you a victim. Please dont mistake his drama, his excitement as interesting or let it become addictive & take over your life. I've been there and I didnt see it until I got out of the relationship. I wish you'd use some of that lovely kind nature that you have and treat yourself with it.