He needs to TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for his actions, instead of throwing a dangerous emotionally blackmailing tantrum at your expense. Love is all good and well, but love is NOTHING without respect. He doesnt respect you, and one day, when you realize you've been putting up with his emotional abuse for too long, you will lose your respect for him too. He needs help,your relationship will go nowhere slowly if he doesnt get some fast... I wish you the best, God bless