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Originally Posted by MommaR
Thank you all so much! You are such dear, precious friends! I dont know how I made it b4 I met you all! Just spoke w/ my daughter's p doc, they have diagnosed her with BPII and Oppositional deviant disorder. She will get to come home Fri but a therapist will be coming to our home 3 times a week. I am happy to do whatever she needs, but doesnt that seem a little excessive/evasive?
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I think all that therapy, and them coming to the house is a blessing Momma! She needs this support, your family needs and deserves this support. I think it's a good thing. I have tears of joy for your family that y'all will have this support. Maybe look at it as intensive rather than invasive?
We used to have the teacher come from the public school to teach my son at home, at first I did feel invaded. But my son needed this and had a right to it. I wish they would've sent therapy at home, because he was very bp & o.d.d and would do things like smash my windshield while driving him to therapy appointments.

I couldn't get him to go to the appointments.
So this may feel overwhelming and bad at first having the therapist come to your house 3 times a week, but really I think it's a blessing, and this could really help your whole family so much.
How is your son doing? Is he healing ok? My daughter is avoiding being here at home since my son came home from hospital, she is traumatized from him hurting her. She is a bit mad that I let him come home, but I did not have much choice, and this is his home too. Hoping her boyfriend will come stay with her to help her feel safe. It's an insane position for a mom to be in. We have to protect everybody, and we love all our babies more than anything.

Praying and sending love to you and your family.