I'll be honest I do like some bondage. But hard to have that while self-pleasuring unfortunately. The creative mind's imagination is probably the best sex toy there is. Most of my sex life is by myself, so luckily I do have an active imagination.

Fleeing- you did give a lot of detailed info. you are right, she should be careful entering a sex shop that could be seedy - an internet purchase would be my preferred and more private choice. i felt like you were trying to say, "ok I have given all the info, now no one else should speak on this topic". we can all speak on the topic and be supportive until mods close a thread, right? we're probably misunderstanding each other and sorry i was *****y about it.