(((Wiki)))
My mom took care of my grandma for years and was the person in charge of her estate. She took my grandma to doctor's appointments, grocery shopping, church, etc. She was the one who got called when grandma needed to go to the hospital which was frequent. One aunt helped where she could, but lived 30 minutes away. My other aunt lived 100+ miles away, came for fun weekends at grandma's house, then left my grandma exhausted and the house a disaster. I remember the fights dividing up "stuff" and my far-away aunt thinking she deserved more than everyone else and swore I would never be that way over "things" or money.