Sorry to hear that Lex. It sounds as though he's going through his own problems at this moment. I wouldn't allow his fears and pain hurt you as well. Is he normally that paranoid, or was he drunk? He may just have been very drunk, because he hurting with the split you all just had. You know people can get when they are drunk.

IDK, it sounds as though he's in a desperate time right now, and he's really hurting. I would just not answer the phone for a day or two to let things cool down a bit. If he then accuses you of cheating and all that, then suggest that since he don't trust you, then to not come home.

Good Luck girl, I hope it all works out.