Rhapsody...oh Thank you..that does make perfect sense..because of the stealth radar that has been created for enviromental cues realting to abuse..I am the same way..peoples eyes..really..really..really..bother me..but in my artwork..some of the more abstract stuff..revolves around eyes..so that makes sense..wow..thanx.

Early in my marriage..I used to write short notes to my now ex hubby..telling him how upset I was at his rage..then he always got angrier when I failed to respond to him when he got mad..I would stare at the floor and go mute..so the notes would be tucked away in his pockets or brief case..but even the notes were really basic..for example."I dont like what you did"..so maybe another part of the DID system working???

Thank you Rhapsody for sharing...appreciate it very much...