Thank you for all of the responses! I would not go to a seedy shop: I have purchased sex furniture in the past (a cube and a wedge: waiting for a partner now), made by Liberator, from Libida.com, a reputable women-only site with reviews and other consumer information. I have just never bought toys, and I wanted advice from friends more than I wanted to read the reviews on Libida.com. Or, let us say, in addition to.

I think this is the kind of thread that naturally dies out with time but I would not want to ever call it a day because all responses are welcome.

I am glad I have found it now that it has been moved!

No, I do not want bootie play but clitoral stimulation. Straightforward clitoral stimulation. Hands-free sounds very interesting. And it is reassuring to hear that vibrators will not alter my response to human touch.

I will let you know how it goes!