I know this is shocking coming from me, (that is, if you know me well), but I wish so much I had lived with my ex before I married. Perhaps it would have saved me much heartache down the road and so much less legal entanglement and abuse. Trying to stick it out just because you're married is stupid, and believe me, I have my "Here's Stupid" sign.
Sadly,
Jan
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