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Originally Posted by MommaR
Ok, not saying this is a great solution or anything but I'm hearing you say you really dont want to end the marriage. Im also hearing you say you could not handle the open relationship he is suggesting. Have either of you thought of/ considered/brought up the possibility of a threesome? Ok, please dont stone me yet, friends! Im thinking maybe your hubby just has a bad case of the 7 yr itch and this might give him the feeling he is getting that variety he thinks he wants and you would be right there the whole time and you even have the leverage of setting all the ground rules. If this idea is just totally too wackadoodle for you I completely understand but the thought came to me and I felt it was worth bringing up
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We've talked about it in the past and that's when our sex life was better than ever. I wasn't able to go through with it when we got close to actually doing it. I think he will always want to do it, but I just don't know if I can get there. Maybe we can talk about it again and see what feelings come up for me. I am afraid that at this point, he would be paying all the attention to the third person in the equation and I would be pretty much sitting there watching. Chances are, I would just go out to the kitchen and have some ice tea and think about what I want to pack when I leave.