I too thought you were building up to something more whats the word illicit, immoral, depraved, but opening and reading a lovers emails is no big deal. my wife and I belong to a womens group and one night this topic came up and it was so funny because here we all thought we were doing something majorly wrong and were the only one to do so and it turned out that with a count of 15 women 12 admitted to reading their partner/lovers/spouses emails.

my wife went a step further, she discovered one day while looking around her computers hard drive for something that one of the folders she didnt realize was on her computers hard drive had saved a back up history of activity. she knew some of those dates where images of her emails showed up she was out of town.. so she figured she would give me something to read. so she opened a new email account from work and then using her regular email and the newly established one wrote the most interestingly amazing emails with cliff hanger type endings, in order to find out what happened next to this bogus person I had to keep one reading her regular email account... Oh my gosh I kept thinking, this Ursela lady has some amazing sexual encounters with her lover that she keeps gossiping to my wife about..lol

did that cure me of hopping into Sandi's email account? nope still do it and sometimes I will find an email wrote to me like last week when she had to work late, she sent herself an email that said

"my loving and curious wife

I miss you too, Ill be home around 7."

I wrote a reply saying

"my beautiful wife with eyes in the back of her computer...
7 huh, Ill see you then and...."

my wife and I both have two email accounts one we share and one we dont but neither of us minds when each other hops on over to the other emails for a visit. kind of like some people leave notes on the fridge or under their loves pillow we hop on over to each others emails.