Honey, we can still pray together. I even prayed with you recently. Do you not remember? Honey, this will take some time. Why do you keep saying both we good match, and need to see if good match? We both felt God tell us before this was right.. I know myself am not seeking just comfort. i really love you. You know that.

You know we are match. Why do you keep saying that? it hurts my feelings. You know it is really that we need to ask God "how can i be a good spouse?" not "what kind of person to marry?"